Our expert says:
Hm, colourful family indeed, P and P.
So, it's not just that she has awful taste in men ( or no taste ) but that she chooses guys who reveal their awfulness clearly and readily. Is it that she's not looking for any potential problem areas, or that she's imperceptive when they're there under her nose ?
She adores too easily, and seems oddly reluctant to learn from esperience. Or, rather, insists on learning the wrong lesson each time - blaming others for being mean, rather than recognizing what is at fault with the guys themselves.
Such a recurrent pattern of choosing rotters, can be a way of proving one's theory that love is impossible, that men are all basically bad, whatever, and its taking care of avoiding experiences that would contradict that world view by dumping the nice guys before they could prove the contrary.
If one is devoted to a world-view that you are "poor me" who never gets any good chances in life, you may become remarkably skilled at arranging experiences that will apparently prove that to be so.
It sounds as though the psychologist she has occasionally seen has realy not been effective ; maybe someone diferent, CBT-orientented, might be more useful, especially if made aware in advance of her patterns of behaviour.
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