Our expert says:
Of course he's bad. He has discovered that this is a perfect technique with which to torment you.
Maybe seeing a counsellor would help you to develop your own strengths, and to explore actally useful tactics for dealing with him.
If you got a friend and didn't tell him, maybe he wouldn't notice, and nothing would change ; or he wouldn't care, and that could be worse ; or he'd find out and use this as the excuse to justify anything more he chose to do forever more. Bad tactic.
What you are describing are many different ways i which you signal to him that his tactic is working, that it badly bothers you, and thus you motivate him to play that miserable game even harder.
As qwerty says, he sounds childish and sulky. Maybe he is working hard and not doing anything else that's sinister, but he's not treating you with due respect.
If he wont take the marriage counselling option seriously, or subverts it, then you may need to think seriously about whether this marriage is worthwhile for you. Maybe he'll listen to a lawyer's letter ?
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