Our expert says:
Its rarel;y wise to make long-range decisions on the basis of very short acquaintance with someone you meet --- in the early stages of a relaionship everyone's on their best behaviour, and you haven't had any time to discover the snags that will arise in any relationship. And while someone is still in a nasty and bitter stage with their ex, starting new relationships is really risky. This does indeed sound very like a rebound fling. You have already seen warning signs o a possessiveness and insecurity which certainly will cause problems before long. It would be wise to look for a safe and kind way to end things now, maybe telling him that you're not ready for a close relationship no, and hope he will successfully work through his divorce, with help if necessary, and maybe you'll both meet up later when you're both in a better place to think about a relationship.
As Rally says, its not the age difference but the very large volume of unpacked baggage he is carying, that is the problem. Give him time to unpack.
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