Our expert says:
Its unrealistic to expect a bf/gf to be ready to commit to a long-term relationship / marriage within the first year ; its highly unrealistic if they have not done so within 2 years, to expect this to magically happen later. Where someone refuses to take personal responsibility for their own actions, decisions and choices, the odds aren't good for a satisfying relationship.
As I so often need to poin t out within this forum - it sounds as though he is entirely comfortable with the relationship as it is, and as though he has no motivation to change it.
Acceopt things remaining just like this permanently, or plan to move on. Problem can be solved when both parties sincerely recognize the problems and agree to work together to find solutions. When one refuses to see that there's a problem, or to work on it, it wont get solved
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