Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
35 years is a long time to be married and yet we witness more and more couples who separate after such long relationships.
Money issues are one thing and can be overcome but you have to weigh the financial problems you encounter in your marriage and the financial problems you may encounter if you divorce your husband. Since you are probably married in COP all your assets will have to be divided equally between the two of you.
As for your emotional and personal journey in your relationship, you are the only one who can decide whether leaving your husband is what will make you more happy.
Sometimes people have been "stuck" in relationships because they thought they had no option. The truth is, we always have a choice. After such a long time spent together you and your husband may have gotten used to a degrading quality of communication. You may want to explore some personal growth courses. Discuss the issues at hand and explore your options but make your decision once you have clarity that your paths are separating as opposed to going in the same direction.
A divorce is not a breakup point in someone's life, it is a change of direction.
Which direction are you wanting to go?
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