Our expert says:
What's surprising in your story is that you apparently didnt notice her rigidity and opposition to your family for 4 years while you were together, and then did so, after marrying her ?
I'm pleased to hear that you two did at least try counselling, as its unfortunate to give up on a relationship without at least trying sincerely to see if the problems can be worked out. Sounds like she could be a fun friend, but too rigid and controlling to be a comfortable spouse / companion. If she saw counselling solely as a matter of YOU making concessions, and was unwilling to acknowledge her own problems and irritants, or to change, then you'd either need toaccept her completely as she is, uncomfortable though that would be, or leave, move on, and be more cautious next time round.
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