Our expert says:
Um. It doesn't really sound as though this guy sincerely and thoughtfully tried to enter into a genuine relationship with you, to pull his weight financially or emotionally, does it ? Getting pregnant by him was not one of your best ideas, either, was it ?
Maybe you're more successful financially, but any self-respecting human in his position would feel the need to try to contribute as much as he can, especially to the extra expenses he has ghelped to create, with the pregnancy, for instance.
Maybe he was wanting to clear with his parents the POSSIBILITY of getting married, rather than necessarily announcing a formal engagement, but surely he should have discussed that with you in detail. ahead of time ?
Doesn't he uinderstand that whether the next months will include a completed marriage or a close relationship heading in that direction, it is not something he should be working on alone, but needs to be done in collaboration with you ?
The hormones and other aspects of pregnancy might indeed not help you to be at your best in such negotiations - but do emphasize to him that these are things to be discussed and worked on together, and not by him alone, especially as he seems to keep repeating essentially the same errors.
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