Our expert says:
Come on --- this is fantasy, not reality --- you are very free to chose NOT to daydream about this guy, who is surely much less marvellous in reality than he is within your fantasies. You know this is wrong, and could lead you into further wrongness. As maria says, focus instead on deepening your relationship with your husband --- with the assistance of a couples counsellor, if needs be. And try to avoid spending more time with this couple, make certain you never spend any time with him alone, and remember the difference between love and lust
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