Our expert says:
So maybe you both have some problems, but she believes only in yours and thinks only you need to change ? If she's not prepared to accept that she also has some difficulties and also needs to change, there's not much good promise in this relationship, is there ? Proceeding to marry someone in this situation is hardly wise, is it ?
Is your love mainly for the person you hope she will be, rather than the self-centred person she actually is ?
As Maria says, you show admirable maturity in recognizing that you're not perfect and in being prepared to take help to improve. She sounds deeply immature and really not ready to marry anyone yet.
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