Our expert says:
Maybe you're not being melodramatic ( the drama is hardly melo ) but he does sound like a lazy lout, prepared to pay with afection, to have you as a marvellous lover / cook / and house-maid. At today's rates, that's pretty cheeap.
YOu don't need to make a quarrel out of it, but calmly telll him that while you appreciate his affections, you are no a servant, and expect him to pull his wait as regardfs household chores.
If he doesn't wash up after you have cooked the meal, tell him there won't be enough clean dishes for you to serve the next meal. And if he waits for you to run a bath for him, let him wait.
Whatever he is being, it's not a "man".
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