Our expert says:
It sounds like there may be two issues here: the short time that sex lasts for and your husbands lack of interest in sex. The one may be related to the other. The less frequent the sex is, the more quickly he is likely to ejaculate and also it may be that he is less interested if he feels bad about his ability to delay his ejaculation. I wonder if you have spoken to him about this in order to try to understand and also to explain to him (in a loving way) the effect that this has on you. Once you have some understanding then you can begin to decide the way forward. I would also suggest that you explore why you don't give yourself pleasure in the absence of any...but I am not suggesting that this would be a replacement at all. Your sexuality is an important part of your identity and should be included as part of your needs as an adult.
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