Our expert says:
Sometimes people who have had earlier molestation are ambivalent about sexuality, and may tolerate becoming fat so as to feel safer, i.e. less attractive. HE would benefit most from seeing a good psychologist for psychotherapy, preferably of the CBT format, to understand the nature of his continuing concerns and to gain the skills of change them for the better.
We are not doomed to be eternal victims of whatever hapened to us earlier in life, but may become trapped by the assumptions and habits of thought we formed then, until we learn to change them
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