Our expert says:
Your position is valid, as is his. It looks as if your positions are no longer compatible. This doesn't mean that you mislead him, you have changed your mind now and that is fair enough. It sometimes happens that when people in a relationship differ on something which at least one of the people consider to be what I call a 'show stopper' or a 'non-negotiable', then they may decide to part company. If he is indeed 'obsessed' it may be that is more for him than just sex, certain obsessions can be damaging on a number of levels.
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