Our expert says:
Gosh, this really doesn't sound like a promising relationship. A guy who sounds primarily sexual and with very many women in his life, and a woman who has had most unfortunate sexual experiences, and is much younger.
But why should you feel guilty about not being as interested in sex as you ? That's much less logical than for him to feel guilty for not being sensitive enough to understand your situation and be much less demanding of you.
Sex is a normal part of most people's lives, but it's important to recognize it as a want rather than a Need. If he wanted a sexual relationship, surely he could turn to one of his many other pals. Why should it be your duty to provide for him in this particular way ?
Do see a counsellor / therapist for your own sake, to work on freeing you from the probably efects of the rapes, so you can enjoy yourself as you wish in life from here on. For YOUR sake, not for the sake of this particular companion.
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