Our expert says:
My advice to you is sort out one situation first otherwise it all becomes very muddy and confusing and you will end up being blamed when currently this may not be the case. If you don't trust your partner, he is not attempting to care for your needs, and he has already cheated on you, why are you with him? You are vulnerable, and having attractions to another person make this even more difficult and more likely to make a bad decision. You have already stepped over the normal boundaries of a relationship with this friend; I recommend you stop whilst you're at this stage and try to make decisions about your current partnership.
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