Our expert says:
I need to compliment you on your sensitivity and commitment to attempting to understand the dynamics of your relationship. You have demonstrated remarkable appreciation and thought into the various aspects of what may be impacting your sexual relationship.
I have decided not to even attempt addressing the number of aspects potentially contributing to the status of your sexual relationship, since there are quite a number and limited space here. You asked what I suggest and I suggest what you have already in essence realised and alluded too. You and your partner need to seriously consider seeing a couples/psychosexual therapist. You have described issues that could be internal issues for your partner as well as issues that are of a relational nature between yourself and your partner.
Please seriously pursue the option of seeing a professional.
I hope you both give this a try and that it may assist you both to address the obstacles influencing your sexual relationship.
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