Our expert says:
OK, the important thing here isn't about anal sex as such, but about your husband respecting your wishes. If you don't want to try a variation he fancies, he should respect that. Its not about disappointing him. If to you its a "real no-no", then no it is.
Would he be as eager to assist if you decided you wanted to use a dildo and perform anal sex on him ? Probably not.
If you decided to try it, I understand that it is often uncomfortable at first, but not usually continuingly painful.
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