Posted by: Maxi | 2012-11-09


I know that there is something emotionally wrong with me as I struggle to reach an orgasm. I know that I''m able to, as it happened by accident 3 times in 10 years.. only after drinking alcohol... i was abused as child and think that that might be the " block"  that stops me from reaching the end.. it is putting a lot of strain on my relationship as my partner thinks that he can''t satisfied me.. I tried toys and masturbation, but nothing seems to get me there.. Can you please tell me where i can go for professional help, preferably a sexologist as I tried a psychologist but with no luck..Gauteng area..

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I am sorry that happened to you, but you are already halfway to healing if you can identify the problem yourself. I agree that that is most likely the reason why you "can not let go" and why alcohol facilitated it (little or no inhibitions with alcohol). For the contact details of a therapist Call the SASHA helpline on 0860 100 262. We would like to assist you. Deidre - SASHA

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Posted by: Jay | 2012-11-14

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