Our expert says:
Well, if you're not getting any, you couldn't have any less, and its entirely reasonable that you'd want more. Has your wife been reluctant to have sex from the start of your relationship, or is this a more recent change ?
There's no solution that wouldn't have to start with discussing this calmly with her --as soul says. Its possible she has a low level of libido anyway ; or that she was molested as a child and is scared of sex, or that she has a minor gynae condition that makes it unduly uncomfortable for her. Be sympathetic, as she's not likely to be denying sex to you simply in order to frustrate or annoy you. Encourage her strongly to join with you in seeing a marriage counsellor, to enhance the srelationship in general, and explore the sexual issues within that counselling
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