Our expert says:
Well, if you're having a sexual affair with him, despite his steady woman friend where he lives, it's hardly surprising that he doesn't want her to know you exist.
He's cheating on her with you, and indeed, he is cheating on you with her, except that you seem to be quite happy about the latter situation.
He actually doesn't genuinely "love" either of you, if he can do this - but how very convenient it all is, for him !
You're right to recognize your low self-esteem, qwhich would be well worth working on with a good local counsellor. this sitation doesn't respect you or the other woman.
Stop telling yourself that "sexually I just can't say no" - the truth is that you DON'T say no, at least not so far, but you COULD and can.
Be careful how easy it is to create situations which seem to confirm your theories - i you convince yourself that no man will stay in a relationship with you, its too easy to only relate to guys who won't stay,
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