Our expert says:
You find yourself in a very precarious situation. You do not say the age of the teenage boy. The age of consent for sex in South Africa is 16. So if the boy is 16 and older you will not have a case of statutory rape to contend to but will need to address the affair you had with the young man and your marriage. If the teenage boy is younger than 16 you also have the legal concern of statory rape.
The problem is too complex to address here. I strongly recommend you consider seeing a social worker or psychologist in your area for indepth counsel and advice.
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