Our expert says:
sex is like every other human activity; just like riding a bike you need to learn how to ride it before you can cycle. sex is exactly the same, it is not a natural act but rather it must be learnt. it is imperative for you to realise that you have equal right to satisfaction and pleasure in a sexual relationship. please see our website for info on how to reframe sex as a pleasurable act for both partners: www.sexualhealth.co.za
furthermore, casual sex may just destroy your relationship that you have with your husband. maybe rather first self-pleasure yourself / masturbate in the meantime prior to both being re-educated on the nature of sexuality.
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