Our expert says:
There are many factors to consider. Relationships are built on trust ,respect and love .Sex is what follows from that . I can see you striving to please but not knowing what your husband REALLY wants and whether you are being used in the process .Your husband may be experiencing a decreased sexual desire disorder for which he should see a general practitioner/urologist to exclude any underlying medical conditions including cardiac disease, hypertension, diabetes mellitus, thyroid problems etc. psychological factors must also not be ignored. It seems your'l had to go through quite alot and the impact of this might be manifesting itself in the bedroom. Seeing a couples counsellor or psychologist will help greatly .
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