Our expert says:
Ageing and Sexuality expert
How frustrating! Both of you politely sitting like teenagers making out on the couch, believing you are respecting each other. To answer your question older people are highly sexual if they are healthy, have access to a partner and have willingness. Buy my book "Ageing and Sexuality"(Oshun 2009) and become wonderfully informed.
Your conundrum with your boyfriend .. of course take action, of course let him know that you want to move on to the next "base" :) You must find your style, way of communicating. Like invite him into your bedroom. tell him you would like of you to go for HIV tests as you long to be penetrative with him. In other words, go into seduction mode Im sure you can take yourself there:) Please remember to use condoms.
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