Our expert says:
Obviously what he did was foolish and selfish, and your response has been natural but not exactly helpful to you. I hope you will seriously consider mariage counselling together, as sometimes the issues are more complex than one can efficiently solve on one's own. Maybe the sex is better because you feel a bit more assertive and deserving of attention to your own needs, and he is trying harder to be attentive. "Normal" is usually not a useful word, and is value-laden - but what you describe is credible and probably not rare
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