Our expert says:
What has become unfamiliar to us, even from simple disuse, may feel strange and new when one resmes or ties to resume it. Discuss this calmly with him, explaining that you feel very much aroused by him, but find difficulty relaxing and enjoying sexual activity at this stage. At least let him understand how this affects you, And maybe a few personal counselling sessions can help you clear this up. Sometimes, form instance, a widow or widower finds they feel guilty as though they are being unfaithful if they become sexually involved again, even after some years, and you can work through such concerns and free yourself to find enjoyment again, recognizing it as something you deserve and which is not at all unfaithful.
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