my wide is 46 and I am 47, she is hot and turns me on incredibly, but over the past 5 years or so, her sex drive has decreased to zero, we still have sex 2 or 3 times a month, it is alwaus quick, hardly any foreplay, and only from my side, she likes quick sex, me on top, het on top, she has 2 orgasms, rolls over for me to finish, and thats that, but for her the thought of sex is a chore, she actually gets irritated with me watching her in the bath, or dressing, because she knows that I get turned on every time, and she now asks to bath alone, so that I dont see her, sex is becoming our division, and other than sex we are best friends, we still date after 25 years of marriage, our kids are not often home anymore, as they are studying away, and I thought these would be our best sex years, but it is the opposite, we used to have wild passionate sex 3 or 4 times a week, often lasting over an hour, now its about 10 minutes at most, is there any hope, or do I just accept a dull sex life from here on out