Our expert says:
It sounds as if your sexual boredom is a relatively minor issue compared to what it must be like to married to a man who is constantly intoxicated...whilst he might not be acting drunk, you are clearly not dealing with the 'real person' most of the time and I imagine that that must be really difficult. I would be so bold as to say that there is absolutely nothing you can do to change the sexual relationship whilst he is drinking like this because you are not really dealing with a rational mind... I hear that he has a low self esteem, and that may be part of the problem, but you might find that the more frustrated you get and the more he sees he's not meeting your expectations/wishes, the worse he will feel, and so the spiral will grow. Unless his drinking is addressed, I can only see two of you (and any children involved) getting hurt...
Claire - SASHA
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