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Posted by: Zodwa Tyatyaza | 2011-09-16

sex

Hi ,im 26 yrs ,one child and my fiancee is 29 yrs.He wants it everyday and sometym i become rude to him,i feel he doesnt want 2 give me a break.This is new to us ,2010 we were having sex 3 days a week and now?

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The important thing is to find a balance between what you want and need and what wants and needs, The more we just give in to the other’s needs and suppressing yours the bigger the possibility for resentment to creep in. It might be worth it for the two of you to explore how you can find a balance. Visit our website it might be helpful to read a bit on how men and women differ in their approach to sexual intercourse and need. IT might also be helpful to seek guidance from a therapist that specifically works with sexual concerns.
For further information please consult SASHA’s website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to helpline.sasha@gmail.com.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-21

Check mail again ...............

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-21

Thnaks - i amiled you

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-21

Ok Check your mail !!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-21

Only my pleasure. I would really like to continue chatting to you also. I undersatnd what you are saying. As i mentioned , should you at any time decide that we shoud stop chatting, i promise i will stop mailing you. Think about it. What time does your meeting start?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-21

English too - And thank you for the vote of confidence.
Oddly enough - meaning I don''t really understand why - but yes I would like to continue chatting if that is OK with you ??

My only problem I have with sending you an email is that my email addy will tell you who I am and where I am - Yours is still unknown !! Do you understand ? But I also don''t actually like chatting here.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-21

I am a man of my word. I am sure you will be fine. All the best and enjoy. English and you?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-21

Nice to see someone keep a promise - A rare occurance.
Ready for meetings I don''t know - I am being introduced to the two I am attending today. 1st one is all morning till about 12, this afternoon''s one I am bit more nervous about it is being introduced to all the directors !!!! So we shall see......

By the way are you english or afrikaans ?

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-21

No offence taken. Do you want to continue chatting?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-21

Charles - I apologise if you were uspset about being called a player - As I said I do not trust and I have good reasons not too, and players will get my back up in seconds. That kind of person I am not interested in talking too.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-21

I promised i would. I am very well thanks. Are you ready for your meetings?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-21

Well Surprise :) Good morning. I am well thank you, how are you ?
Been here since 6h45 preparing for the meetings!!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-21

Good Morning, how are you? Hope you had a great evening.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

I justed paosted a single comment there - that was it

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

I am no player

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Charles - So I see you are in other places too.

Well now - I definitely don''t want a player - So you decide -

We shall see how tomorrow goes

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Have a great eveining. I will definitely say Hi. I hear waht youa re saying but i promise i will keep up to my word.
Roomate - i just psoted a single comment there.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Charles - I see what you mean.

Going home now had enough for today and tomorrow I know is going to be more hectic.

Take care and have a good evening - Hopefully you will say hi tomorrow !

I will think about the email - I do not trust anyone unfortunately not for many years now.

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Posted by: Roommate | 2011-09-20

But you enjoyed Nr 331 so much !!!!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Roomate - i amnot missing out on anything. I am glad where i am

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

I definitely will. Cant wait for your eamil though

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Posted by: Roommate | 2011-09-20

Charles you should read post number 347... you are so missing out !!!!

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Yes please - If you want to that is -

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Same here - its been really fun. Do you mean i should say hi here?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

And I would say East.

You know what it has been fun chatting to you. When you get into work tomorrow say hi! Because I will be in before you.
I have long meetings most of the day tomorrow - But I will check to see if you leave a message.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Iwould say North and you?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

You first this time North, South, East or West?

I have buried my heart

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Please foloow your heart and do waht your heart says.
I am also in Gauteng.
North, South, East or West?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Honestly I have even a lesser idea on that.

Ok I am in gauteng - where are you ?

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Ok.
if i may, how will you decide whether you should?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Too early for that ..........

We shall see

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Please if i amy ask - please trust me and mail me form your work email., i promise i will respect your wishes and should you at anytime decide that you want to stop chatting then i promise i will respect your decision.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

I don''t know either and I am quite a bit disappointed to be honest. I am sorry.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Not sure waht we are going to do now.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Crap we are back to were we are now....

We have been blocked and unfortuantely my office mail address is too obvious for purposes of anonymity !

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Cool, hope they can resolve your problem though, or less it means we are back to were we are now.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Fair enough I do agree. I have your address I am still waiting for IT to get back to me.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Well you cna stop it if it goes too far. We cannot discuss personal private stuff here

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Depends on me ............ nope I think you have ideas and before it goes too far I''d rather know your ideas first

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Depends on you - how private would you like to go. I agree but its a job and when duty calls you have to honour that.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Ok I agree - but how private were you thinking of going ???

You should not leave work too late - Not good for you !! You need to relax in the evening although I am not really the one who should b e giving out lectures !!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

We cannot have a private conversation here.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Between 4 - 5 pm sometimes later. I am not also worried but it is a public forum.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

I finish at 4 and you ??
I am not particulary worried about other people are you ?

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

What time do you finish work?

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

People will start complaining soon. I would prefer private but for now we can chat here.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Me either - I have sent a mail to IT I am not sure when they are going to answer me thou.

Here is good for now or would you rather not ?!?!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Not sure how we going to chat then

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Ok I tried I can set up email but I can''t access it.......... So now I have another email address I can''t use.
This is beyond frustrating ....!!!!

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

LOL Well enjoy your meeting then -

Hmm trying to figure out how - Bit concerned about it though.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Glad you enjoying it.
i am going into a meeting now.
wish we could chat in private though.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Hi that was quick - I like meetings like that.
As you guessed I am back !!
This is quite enjoyable.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

I promise mine is the wildest .
Ok enjoy.
i promise i wont - soon i will be falling over my desk.
Let me know when you are back.

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Posted by: Abon 2 | 2011-09-20

Yours couldn''t be any wilder than mine that I can gurantee.

2nd meeting now chat later - don''t go too over board now .......

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

My imagination is running wild now........

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Too many figures in my head now I am leaving the imagination up to you . I typed this twice !!

Coffee isin''t doingit anymore and it is strong stuff....

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

i cant even spell now.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Most definitely - i will sahre with you but how?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

If I can''t you can''t that is unfair - And if you are going to then you need to share !!!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Mind the second sentence - not sure what happened - seems i had something strong

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Yep so true. Jbrcr9

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

That sounds good - but then the graphs and data might take on a diffrent angle and the out come might not be the right one ??

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

That sounds hetic. Maybe something stronger

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Hectic meetings are interrupting my work. I am trying to analyse data - spreadsheets and graphs and am thinking I need some strong coffee, my brain is already hurting LOL.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

I hate meetings and seminars.
Not too hetic and how is your day thus far?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Only just another one again in an hour ....Yuck.
How is your day ??

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Are you done with your meeting?

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Sorry - enjoy your meeting. Chat later

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

No - and I think that is getting too personal anyway !!!!!
Chat later got meeting to go too.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

People will soon start complaining. Can you not create one on your mobile?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Just wondering why do you want to chat to me anyway?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

I don''t know..........here ........?
I don''t know :(

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

How will we chat then?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Unfortunately I can''t our server blocks such things. I know I have tried before.
Would have been nice thouogh.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Ok i understand where you are comming form. I dont mean to sound persistent or scary - are you going to create a gmail account. This is a public forum and soon people are going to bite our heads off.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Agreed but right now at this point in time - I would prefer to live alone - I wish I could. Company then can be when desired and not forced upon.

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

I agree, but one cannot live alone, need company at some point in time.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Then I could be alone - Nobody to hurt/upset/disillusion me !!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Why do you wish so?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

No I am not although I sometimes I really wish I was

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Also here - but i cant see you. Are you invisible?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

I am right here !! Where are you ??

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Age is just a number Anon 2 - well i am one of those that dont think that you are. May i ask where are you?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Ha ha - Good of you to say so.
Personally I don''t think I am - but you never know some people think that is too old!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

No you are not.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

LOL - then I am prehaps too old - 44,

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-20

Sorry for the questions and scaring you. I never meant to do that. Well i am old enough i am 38 years.

Reply to Charles
Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-20

Actually you are scaring me - Sorry - Too many questions - And I don''t think you are old enough!!
Have a good day

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-19

You must create one - its simple. How old are you and where are you from?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-19

No I don''t.......

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-19

Dont you have gmail? Where are you?

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-19

No I said won''t do that - Chatting here is fine !

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-19

Cool - will you mail me then?

Reply to Charles
Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-19

Chatting is fine ...........

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-19

I understand Anon 2 - but we cna just chat - after all we are in the same boat.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-19

Charles
Way too scared to do that - But I wish I could !!

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-19

I am real Anon 2 - mail me.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2011-09-19

Are you guys for real or do you just post random email addresses.
My hubby doesn''t wan to give anymore either ..........!!

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Posted by: J | 2011-09-16

Please mail me at 123jaci at gmail dot com

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Posted by: cHRIS758 | 2011-09-16

Anon please mail me at cdekok 758 at gee mail dot com.....

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Posted by: Charles | 2011-09-16

Anon , my wife does not give me sex. Mail me charles dot jansen 45 at gmail dot com

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Posted by: Anon | 2011-09-16

Send your hubby to me, I will let him have it 3 times a day if he wants it that much, even more. I love sex, and I love giving men sex whose wives neglect them in the bed. They are the best kind because they are just soooo needy, and ohhhh can they give a girl a good time.

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Posted by: Sexologist | 2011-09-16

The important thing is to find a balance between what you want and need and what wants and needs, The more we just give in to the other’s needs and suppressing yours the bigger the possibility for resentment to creep in. It might be worth it for the two of you to explore how you can find a balance. Visit our website it might be helpful to read a bit on how men and women differ in their approach to sexual intercourse and need. IT might also be helpful to seek guidance from a therapist that specifically works with sexual concerns.
For further information please consult SASHA’s website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to helpline.sasha@gmail.com.

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