Posted by: grant | 2010-03-30


when is it the best time time to have sex on the1 st or the 2nd or the 3 rd date and how do i bring bring up the subject to her with out her getting hurt?

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There are no rules on this subject. Its a conversation that needs to happen - if you wait too long to be sexual with a woman she may feel offended and confused and if you go there too quickly - well, she may feel offended and confused-:)
The first subject is "I am attracted to you and would like to be in a sexual relationship with you.How do you feel?" if feeling mutual then the follow up conversation is :" we both need to go for VCT (voluntary counseling and testing) for HIV/AIDS/STI's." And of course you need to both take responsibility for contraception. And then add into thsi mix, emotional decisions:a re we going to be mutually exclusive, date/sleep with others?
Its all very complicated - but one cannot take risks - there is no choice but to find sexy and seductive ways of having these life saving conversations.

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Posted by: nols | 2010-03-30

just go out on the date and see how it goes,if she want to have sex just look for the signals but never ever mention sex on your first date.

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