Posted by: halaal virgin | 2009-03-04

sex - 1st time

plz ignore my ignorance..
when penetrating a woman - how/where do you aim for?
the penis is naturally curved towards the male - so if you penetrate the woman - you curving slightly upwards..
shoud you kind of lift upwards or grind towards her?or just push in wherever you can?

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Do not be ashamed of being 'ignorant'. When you are making love to a partner for the first time, spend a lot of time with foreplay - kissing and touching each other. When the partner is fully aroused, ask her to help you guide your penis into the vagina. Make sure that you have a lot of lubrication to make it more comfortable. Talk to each other and take it slowly and gently. Learn together about what you find pleasurable. Most good book stores have a selection of books with illustrations. These may be useful.

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Posted by: newbie | 2009-03-05

Hi Sexologist!
are ther any online sites or books?
same problem here

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Posted by: halaal virgin | 2009-03-04

thnx :)

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Posted by: Andrea | 2009-03-04

Just make sure you penetrate her vigina and not her anus. As for your concern about the walls, don' t worry. You just get on top of her lying in between her legs, penetrate her and move slowly. (Again - move slowly! It is painful for a girl for the first time, so be very gentle.)

As you and your partner experiment with different positions, you will notice that your penis will touch the walls of her vagina in all sorts of different ways.
Don' t worry, the vagina was made for intercourse (and child birth ofcourse) , so it can definately accomodate your penis.

Hope this helps.

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Posted by: halaal virgin | 2009-03-04

Thnx Andrea!
but - she a virgin too..
what if/how wud u know if u actually going in da right direction?
i could end up pushing against one of the walls of her body..
like maybe the front or back or bottom walls ..

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Posted by: Andrea | 2009-03-04

Ask her to guide you in... and then when you are in, start moving in and out slowly.... the rest should follow naturally there after...

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