Our expert says:
NO apology needed, though a repost is often quicker. Well, making the arangement formal might annoy him sufficiently to tempt him to refuse to go along with the arangement and obstruct it as far as he is able to do ; if he were cooperative, though, it could even be included in a formal agreement.
As he has such easy access to them, his insistence on their sleeping over at his place is power-play and ignores their expressed wishes.
I am sceptical about some of the claims made for "play therapy" and would ratehr that a troubled schild see a properly qualified child psychologist who has a number of different methods at his/her disposal, rather than only one. Its a favourite saying of mine about avoiding "therapists" with only one string on their guitar - if the only tool in your toolbox is a hammer, most things start to look like nails, and you hit them.
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