Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
a separation always brings up many conflictual sides as to what got you there in the first place. The reality is that a separation/breakup is a process and has happened already quite sometime before the actual act. You do mention some major problems prior to this but you do say that you don't even know what you did. It doesn't have to be about something you did. Relationships are organic. They evolve and change and for some the change is separate. Some relationships need the chance to be worked on and others should be allowed to end. Either way, you may benefit from seeing a "Divorce coach" who will be able to guide you in this respect and help you make a conscious choice as to the outcome of your relationship.
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