Our expert says:
This must be very distressing for you. But some folks, maybe your mother among them, did and do leave a disorganized and unwise lifestyle hard for others of us to imagine or understand. One would, I grant you, expect her, even if the first part of her story is correct, to have at least paid attention to the guy's name and address once she knew she was pregnant, and to have explored at least getting maintenance support from him at that time. But to have become pregnant under the circumstances she described to you does not suggest a young woman with much wisdom and common sense at that time. Maybe she really did not, incredibly, remember or make note of his name and address ; maybe there are other reasons for her withholding from you a name and adress she might know. Only she can tell you. I suppose you have checked your birth certificate and birth registration to see if a father was named at that time ?
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