Our expert says:
So you'd like to find a People Whsiperer ? I suppose in some ways that's what a good pychotherapist or counsellor is. Life coaches I don't yet respect, and they do whatever they please, being an informal and unstructured, self-inveted field.
Sometimes, excessive navel-gazing, excessive introspection, too much examining of one's every move and emotion, and so on, can be effectively and affectively paralyzing. It's often important to just go ahead and live, without questioning all that you do.
And as Helper suggests, maybe the way you are naturally is prety fine, even if it doesn't match the assertive, confident creature described in self-help books. Here again, I worry about the sort of person Life Coaches and greetings cards seem to assume we must be.
I suspect you're pretty good as you are, without as much modification as you may be assuming you need
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