Our expert says:
Indeed you cannot ever know everything your partner knows, but presumably that's not what you're wanting. Isn't it more that you want to know anything of specific types that are relevant to the relationship ? What she had for lunch isn't your concern, surly. Total disclosure isn't possible or desirable ( she'd be so busy telling you what she did yesterday, there'd be no time for her to do anything today ). So it's lying or non disclosing things she knows to be validly relevant to you that is the concern. Couples counselling might be able to sort this out, and to set more reasonable boundaries of disclosure between you.
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