Our expert says:
People who come from messy homes tend at least to know that things often need fixing ; people from what appear to be perfect homes may learn that nothing needs fixing, and that if it does, you should never acknowledge this.
But the issues you describe are really complex, and you deserve to sit down calmly with a counsellor or therapist and talk iy through so as to make the wisest decision available to you at this time. The risk at present sems to be that you have already hurt and confused your fiancee and the other guy, and could end up with all three of you hurt, to nobody's advantage.
HYpnotherapy would be of no possible advantage in this situation, but normal practical counselling, especially of the CBT format, WOULD help. Often the request for "hypnotherapy" represents a form of wish for magic, for someone wonderful to come in and solve it all for you, while you are in trance. Even if that were posible, it would not be useful. There's nothing preventing you from making these decision properly which can be magic-ed away by a hypnotist.
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