Our expert says:
I am sceptical whether a relationship begun and continued over a long distance, is realistic or long-lasting. Over such a distance, you know the guy you think he is and hope he is, rather than the man he actually is - and vice versa. There's something essentially artificial and fantasy about such a relationship.
It's realistic to let go and move on, and don't allow yourself to feel so awful - what you have lost is far more of a fantast of how you hoped things might eventually be, than something you ever actually had.
Stop contacting him. If he doesn't contact you, you never had a real relationship with him at all. IF he does, you can consider whether there is something here worth saving and developing
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