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Posted by: Chantal4@CS | 2011/02/08

Rules for kids

The mother and father dont speak, the father does get angry when he sees that his child is breaking rules (whether or not its unreasonable) because of the mother''s influence. The fact of the matter is that the child is learnign to break rules and he has not got cought yet, if the school does not allow hair gel or styles then they just dont, whether its liked or disliked by a parent.

She also lets him eat what ever he wants... She is trying to get the child on her side and its working! for some reason, she has time for all that...The father says that even if the child turns against him one day, its fine, as long as he is decent and respectable and responsible.... He is trying to teach the child everything a child needs to be taught but the mother just breaks all that...

The parents dont speak to each other at all, so that is not even an option. I think the school needs to tell the mother and child!

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And the child is, even more important, learning from both parents the value of being petty and of maintaining grudges and conflict unnecessarily.
The child can't learn any other useful lessons when each parent is teaching contradictory messages. It isn't about hair gel.

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2011/02/08

And the child is, even more important, learning from both parents the value of being petty and of maintaining grudges and conflict unnecessarily.
The child can't learn any other useful lessons when each parent is teaching contradictory messages. It isn't about hair gel.

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