Our expert says:
Folks, PLEASE realize Facebook and similar sites are NEVER and never will be, a reliable way to meet good people. Many people there exaggerate or even fake who thy claim they are. Especially as he lives in another town, you do NOT know if he is who he says he is, or if he is as good as he says he is. Be cautious. If indeed he was bereaved, he should complete his counselling before climbing into a new relationship, especially if he is as keen on the "woes gevryery" activities.
Its never rwally wise to get emotionally involved with someone still working through the grief of the death of a loved one, or still working through a divorce or being dumped. They're not emotionally available to you in the way you need.
But though he should have revealed his state from the start, did he really make you get fond of him or were you, for your own reasons, eager to do so ? He didnt MAKE you love him. Cool off and take it slowly, so you can each discover what would be best for each and both of you
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