Our expert says:
I think the correct scientific term for such a person, is a Klutz ?
Seriously, this sounds way above the average for even a naturally clumsy person. Could there be problems with drink or drugs, making her more clumsy and less likely to remember what she has done or caused ? You do have to gently confront her and get her to face facts - either she brings a poltergeist home with her,. or she is causing an unreasonable amount of damage, which she must arrange to have fixed. You're talking about real, concrete damage, not merely being messy or untidy. You're not being obsessive in being concerned about this. Damage must be avoided and fixed when it occurs. Messiness, as Maria suggests, can be negotiated - she can be as messay as she pleases in her own room, but not in shared areas. Sometimes a person who has lived on their own for too long, just doesn't think of other inhabitants of a shared space.
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