Our expert says:
Johnno, this is quite a common complaint. There may be a number of reasons for your wife's lack of initiation, including social role perception (some women believe that it is a sign of promiscuity to initiate), or less libido/sexual appetite than you and so she doesn't feel driven to initiate. You are right to discuss this with her and try to understand what her reasons are for not initiating - but do make sure that you are not making allegations that are unfair - eg. is the WHOLE relationship one-sided, or just the sexual initiation part?
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