Our expert says:
A maintenance court would have requuired him to pay proper maintenance all along. Sounds like he has messed up elsewhere in his life, and has decided to suddenly start wooing you again. Politely refuse the invitation, and continue as you have been. Revenge is unnecessary --- self-preservation suggests you should not allow him back into your life. Revenge as such is not satisfying or helpful, but unnecessary here --- simple common sense should be enough to suggest the same approach. And forgiveness is never an obligation
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