Our expert says:
I shoulda guessed that the police would have lost their copuy of the restraining order ( or would claim this as an excuse ) - what irresponsible negligence ! Yes, get another order, and have multiple notarized copies made and lodged with helpful people as well as the police.
It is high time the police were required ( make sure the court this time klnows about the police failure in this regard ) to enforce the order scrupulously. Maybe he needs some time in prison to remind him that obeying such and order, and leaving you alone, is something he must do, and not optional.
And explore, perhaps with the court's advice, making a criminal case for sexual assault against him.
The details you continue to supply are so disqueting. It sounds as though he almost enjoys your resistance. I wish POWA was more active and helpful in situations like yours, when a stalking abusive ex-partner is genuinely dangerous
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