Our expert says:
Well, its not easy to choose the best way to respond, but at least now, after your excellent discussion with the lad, you know what the problem is. It'd be a shame if the court asked him ( as they may, or may already have done ) that he may feel he has to choose to stay unhappilly with biomom, in order to protect his dad, losing the chance for a happier and more stable environment with dad and you.
But if there is, for instance, a real chance of violent responses from the mom's family, the father should arrange to tell the court, and to tell the court that the boy is scared of this, and maybe the court can issue an order that the boy should not only be with his dad, but that the mother and her family are not allowed to contact him or his dad or you in any unpleasant or hostile manner,
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