Our expert says:
You're describing a recipe for damaged sexual and intimate relations that usually work well to have this undesirable result. And you have in a way gotten into a habit of not getting aroused, and maybe losing interest in sex, as it has been associated with problems and embarrassment so far.
And with such factors as the bladder infection adn the gynae problems, you have in some ways come to associate sex with pain and discomfort.
Seeing a marriage counsellor together could help you both to relax and enjoy all aspects of your relationship, including sex, far more.
Its not about "fixing" you, but about the pair of yopu working together, with proper expert advice and help, to fix something not currently workign well between you, which can do so.
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