Our expert says:
Thanks for the further information. Rather an unusual situation in some ways. He sounds somewhat impulsive ? We're not talking about an affair, at least not physically. But there seems to have been a degree of emotional intimacy he might not share with his current wife ?
It sounds curious if she pursued him, yet sportingly called you before her wedding, and if she both encourages his contact with you, and also apparently ( if I'm understanding you correctly ) also other women in his life.
Has he really changed since you were with him, or have you changed enough to look differently upon him ?
I grow more confused. You don't want an affair with him, and don't want him back - what, then, DO you want ? An ongoing friendship with occasional public meetings ? Isn't that what you already have ?
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