Our expert says:
What he described, and apparently experienced, sounded like a guy being used. What you describe, and apparently experience, sounds like a woman being used and exploited.
This is what is sometimes called the Rashomon phenomenon, after a brilliant and famous Japanese film, in which 4 or 5 people who were involved in an incident, describe it from their own point of view - producing very different stories, based on what were clearly very different experiences. We may all be present at the same time and place, and may experience events completely differently. RThis is why communication is so important - not assuming that our own is the only point of view, but explaining how we see things and hearing how the other person does.
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