Our expert says:
Of course it's POSSIBLE you're just being difficul, but it seems rather unlikely. It does indeed sound as though he is moving too fast and may indeed be srategiocally moving towards a goal of his own that isn't, at least yet, one that you share.
But unless you want to continue to wander in the dark, at some levels this will need to be discussed with him. Frankly, how do you feel about a weekend at the farm ( apart from the possibility of an offfer of or request for, sex, and how do you feel about that, too ? ) ? You could find a polite reason to refuse the weekend, or ask if you would have separate bedrooms, saying calmly that you don't want to rush things in that direction just yet.
Your instincts should bs respected. Playing it safe is usually the wisest course. If he genuinely likes you, choosing not to go on this weekend should not end the relatonship. If it does, hen that may prove that you were right
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