Our expert says:
It seems like a lot of your diffculties are based around trusting others and more importantly trusting yourself. Having an expectation that you will do the wrong thing and that others will betray you or not like you are at the core of your beliefs about this situation.
Above everything else, it is important to just be yourself. This way you will find the right person for you, rather than worrying about pleasing them all the time.
As for the right time for sex, the only person who will know this is you. Never have sex to keep someone else happy. If someone genuinely is interested in a relationship with you, they will wait until you feel ready.
If you feel stuck with these issues I would suggest you consider seeing a Psychologist to assist you.
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